I've been kicking around the AIM site and googling like mad but I can't seem to find info on how one might send an instant message to an AIM user. AIM.com says something about macromedia central working with AIM but that doesn't help me. I also found snips of PHP code to send to a yahoo account but no luck. AIM site also says something like 'DEVELOPER INFO COMING SOON' but has nothing yet.
I've also searched this site for postings regarding instant messaging and didn't find much.
I'm guessing it might involve opening a socket connection to either my machine or the AOL site. spoofing an AIM client to the AOL site might be tricky. come to think of it, AIM clients might also recognize spoofers and have hack protections.
ultimately, i just want to notify myself when one particular user (ip address) access my site. i was hoping to put a bit of code in the main application that would notify me if this person comes around. since email might be a bit slow, i want instant notification.
any hints, tips or code would be much appreciated.