my though is you just turn error reporting off completely in the files you want to include, and create some variable in that file to determine if it executed fine.
file_1.php
<?php
echo "before include\n";
include("file_2.php");
if (isset($file2_test)) {
echo "include was okay\n";
} else {
echo "include didnt work\n";
}
echo "after include\n";
?>
file_2.php
<?php
error_reporting(0);
fdsaffs; // causes fatal error
$file2_test = "set"; //always do this at the very end
?>
So that way, you set a variable in the included file, if all worked out okay, the variable will then be set after the include, if it had a parse error, the variable wont exist and you can then see the included failed somehow.