Whoops. sorry for the double post - not sure how that happened.
Check this -
I've actually disproved your comment - i successfully sent the entire content of the xml directly to flash without parsing it in php, sending it as one lump variable -- here's my code - as simple as i could have hoped for:
<?php
$rss = $_GET['rss'];
readfile($rss);
?>
My flash file simply commands:
file_xml.load("http://www.nickad.com/rss/andy_rss.php?rss=http://www.bungie.net/stats/halo2rss.ashx?g=DrewBombb");
It's extremely simple, flexible enough to let my flash determine the rss feed to grab, and i can use my actionscript to parse thru the data (and have tested it, successfully.)
the ONLY problem i'm finding is that I still have tags like "<title> whatever </title> in my content ---- regardless, this hasn't caused a problem with crawling thru the child nodes and such, so i can remove those manually later i guess.
Thanks a ton for the guidance - i hope that this helps those of you (like me) who work with actionscript but suck at php!!!!
andynick