i can see what you are trying to do, but i also understand the security risks invovled with making httpd owner of items.
why not use a webbased ftp program? there are many php based ftp clients out there that you can use.
if you want to control who can edit what parts of a page, you can write a script that will allow editing certain "snippets" or sections of code.
all in all I think there are several ways around the ftp issue. other than making httpd owner of folders/files.
if chmod is the issue, why not grant 777 permissions on the file/folder. this way all users can access it.
anyway, my 2 cents... you can give me change if you want.
chris