i guess i agree 100% with you
for the everyday avg user, a quick-n-dirty package works... maybe its just that ive always been the kid that not only uses the drill, but takes it apart to see how it works
and i also agree on the linux vs. windows
i had been serving on a 2k box forever... why? b/c mail was easy to use... didnt have to toy with sendmail... the downside? firewalls, anti-virus, security holes all made for a sluggish box that wasnt really secure....
i finally decided to get off the couch and get slackware running (which im now seeing isnt my style) and now moving to ubuntu... sure it might be a PITA to get going the first few times... but everytime u fall on your face u learn something else (especially if you are documenting the setup) and in the end ive learned how to do alot more
but thats just me 🙂