If you do not want any other user to be able to delete a file or directory, then make sure only the file owner has write access (2). Thus the chmod values for the last two digits must be either 5 (read + execute), 4 (read only) or 0 (no access). So assuming you still want to be able to write/delete them, anything like the following for chmod:
644 (owner read/write, all others just read)
755 (owner read/write/exectue, all others read/execute)
Of course, you want to make sure your login and FTP passwords are secure and not easy to guess (best to use upper and lower case letters plus numbers and special characters). But if someone should crack the host's root (superuser) login/password, it doesn't matter how secure your password is. 🙁