so i wrote a simple socket server in php. i'm trying to get my feet wet with sockets and network programming. i had it working with a simple flash game i wrote before and now for some reason i dig up my old flash and php and flash can't connect to my socket server (but telnet can from a variety of places).
the macromedia/adobe site is useless as are flashkit and actionscript.org.
SO i think i must turn to a packet sniffer to try and figure out a little more about this really irritating problem.
Can anyone recommend a good packet sniffer (that won't send all of my passwords to cyprus or nigeria). My machine here runs WinXP. My server is Debian linux.