I finally found a way that worked! I discovered this code for telling future dates and changes it so that it would give the date of 2 months ago like this:
$age = mktime(0, 0, 0, date("m")-2, date("d"), date("y"));
I sent that date as a hidden value of a form along with the date the membership started. From there I was able to compare the two dates with a simple
if($date > $age)
That was the piece of code I was missing!! Thanks anyway. 🙂