You have installed 4 different programs, each with its own log in method.
You will need to modify 3 of these programs.
Choose the simplest/most used program in your site, and use that method for the log in for the other 3. You'll need to modify the 3 to look at the 1st programs user table instead of their built-in tables.
Find the parts of the 1 program you like that
1 check to see if the user is logged in
2 present a log in screen and submit data to a user table.
Then look for the similar parts of the other programs.
You probably don't need to alter the look and feel parts of the other 3, just the parts that manage user log-in status internally: for example, just by changing the names of the tables being used.