Silent Post?
You mean the IPN featcher of PayPal?
Thats a major nightmare! Took me dozens of hours to get it working on my shopping cart.
You can either add it as a post repsonce in your existing page, or make a new page. I read the POST variables and parsed it to respond accordingly.
If you do not add an absolute URL to your paypal login through the merchant variables, then you need to add the return page as a hidden in the post form.
It greatly varies dending upon your shopping cart/store variables, but is generic overall. Mine is like this:
<input type=\"hidden\" name=\"notify_url\" value=\"http://www.something.com/processipn.php?action=ipn\">
This handles it if you dont have the IPN set in the paypal merchant settings. It is also good for using the same paypal account with multiple website payments.
It's up to you to grab the IPN data and insert it, and double check it in your database to see if it was posted already. It really is the best way to ensure paypal payments are finished and ready to be accepted as done.