Hi guys, got it working with:
$mailuser = ('me@memail.com');
$header = "Return-Path: ".$email."";
$header .= "Content-Type: text/html;";
mail($email,$subject,$contents,$email,$header);
$mail_body = 'User: '. $email .' has sent his input. Comments: '. $comments . '<br />'
;
mail ($mailuser, 'Form sent', $mail_body, $header);
with $mailuser being put in parentheses and single quotes. beats me why the parentheses and single quotes were so important, but hey, it works. Now to tart it up a ilttle.
thanks for all your suggestions peeps, really appreciated it, made me think long and hard.