set the value within the opening select, then use an error message if nothing is selected
<?
if($_POST['submit']=="send") {
$errcount = 0;
$error1="<font face='Verdana' size='2'><span style='color:red'>";
//...
//...
if(preg_match('/^[a-zA-Z_ -]{2,}$/i', $_POST['country'])){
$Country = $_POST['Country'];
}
else {
$error1 .= " Required!";
$errcount++;
}
//plus any other validation
//nb dont forget security when inputting into your database e.g. $County = mysql_real_escape_string($_POST['County']);
if ($errcount !=0) {
//displays errors in form boxes
}
else {
?>
<td>
<select name="Country" id="Country" style="width:145px;" value="<? echo $Country; ?>">
<option value="">Please select a Country</option>
..
..
<option value = "United States">United States</option></td>
<td><?php echo $error1; ?></td>
<?php
}
?>
untested but something like that,