Hi Christina,
I should really be continuing my learning process, but I thought I'd try to help!
To start with you should do a very VERY basic check that will display 'something' to let you know that you have a connection. This might eliminate connection issues
<?
mysql_connect("localhost","your username","password");
echo "Connected to MySQL";
?>
To confirm, everything entered in that first bracket needs double quotation marks.
As you can guess, you should see Connected to MySQL
You might be able to help this forum help you, if you quote your code within a thread so people can check it out.
Good luck with the slow learning curve - I too am finding it difficult to understand why certain things (examples) don't work, but with patience ya never know, both of us might be answering peoples questions on here lol!
Cheers,
Chris