well, I came in this morning planning on reading more into PHPMailer and trying that.
First though, I logged on here I decided to read around a bit. I saw something about the php.ini file might not be getting parsed and to also restart IIS after making changes to the php.ini file (which I didn't know I should do).
So I created a file with phpinfo() and opened that. Saw my SMTP listed as localhost, went into the php.ini file and changed the SMTP server from localhost to our Comcast SMTP server and saved the change. Then I restarted IIS and reopened the file with phpinfo() to make sure the change was indeed made to the SMTP server. Then I opened a the test form to see if it worked and it did!!
So I'll play around with it some more today and make sure it's working and as long as it goes well I'll update this thread with RESOLVED in the title.