Yes, I did finally get mine working. The problem that I was running into was an actual Apache problem. I am running 1.3.19 which utilized 1 conf file rather than 3, my problem was in my srm.conf, even though Apache 1.3.14 and up claim to utilize only one conf file, if the others are in the conf dir they will be read as well unless you add these 2 lines to your httpd.conf:
ResourceConfig /dev/null
AccessConfig /dev/null
After putting these in with the httpd that has the compiled mod_php4.c you don't need to load it as a module.
This cleared up my problem after debugging for a few hours. Hope this helps you out. If your using a version of Apache before 1.3.14, the fix might be something else as the folks at Apache started utilizing the single conf file in this version.