Aaaah, I'll have a think about that, it's like it's saying: "I don't have the focus but I've finished the loading, processing and I'm ready now!".
I don't use AOL but if it's a browser rather than a custom app then it should be do-able. I have no idea what IM is so I'm running blind here.
One trick I have is to save the page I want into my temp folder and it takes most of the javascript with it. I then pore over all the code until I find something hopeful. I then create a test page and see what the code does. If it's good, great otherwise I start over.