When you run a query, most of the time taken is analyzing the query and fetching the data from the table.
This is what puts a load on your database server's CPU.
Once the data is fetched from the tables, sending it to the PHP server is a very simple task that doesn't take much of the CPU.
So it's more important to know how long the query takes than how long it takes to send the data.
Not that the time it takes to send the data is unimportant, but you run into query-speed problems long before you run into 'busy network' problems.