If you want this format in the database then you will need to use a char field and explicitly set the value on update or insert. However, if you want to use a timestamp then all you need is a function to 'decode' it for you into the format you want. How about:
Function sql_date_and_time($sql_date) {
$read_date = substr($sql_date,6,2)."/";
$read_date .= substr($sql_date,4,2)."/";
$read_date .= substr($sql_date,0,4)." at ";
$read_date .= substr($sql_date,8,2).":";
$read_date .= substr($sql_date,10,2).":";
$read_date .= substr($sql_date,12,2);
return $read_date;
Cheers,
Cris