here's the script I use to connect to MySQL that doesnt work:
<?php
$mysql_database="database";
$mysql_username="username";
$mysql_password="password";
$link = @mysql_connect("thehost.net",$mysql_username,$mysql_password) or die ("Unable to connect to SQL server");
mysql_select_db($mysql_database,$link) or die ("Unable to select database");
?>
Can you check that over to see if it's the right script? And also, do I put in the username and password for the host of my website for the username and password?