If it can't find libclntsh.so.8.0 chances are it won't be able find any of the libraries THAT library is looking for (if you just created a link).
Instead do this:
find / -name libclntsh.so.8.0
The DIRECTORY it finds the library in is what you need. (If it doesn't find it then your install is incomplete!)
Next:
export LD_LIBRARY_PATH=/path/to/the/dir/from/above:$LD_LIBRARY_PATH
That should get you past that step (but you may need to set the rest of the environment vars also):
configure directives: --with-oracle=/usr/local/oracle --with-oci8=/usr/local/oracle
Env vars:
export ORACLE_BASE=/usr/local/oracle
export ORACLE_HOME=/usr/local/oracle
export ORACLE_SID=YOUR_SID
export PATH=$ORACLE_HOME/bin:$PATH
export LD_LIBRARY_PATH=$ORACLE_HOME/lib:$LD_LIBRARY_PATH
Adjust the directories/SID for your install directories and SID.
Note: When you boot the webserver these vars still have to be set. I set them in /root/.bashrc but you can do it however you like.
Jack