First Go to this article that was posted last week.
http://www.phpbuilder.com/forum/archives/3/2002/7/1/111658
Follow it exactly!
The only added instructions are to add the php4ts.dll file to your windows/system32 folder.
In the httpd.conf remember to include index.php in the DirectoryIndex section.
Add the following line to your php.ini file.
doc_root = "Your Apache path to the htdocs folder" just do a ctrl F to find the line "doc_root".
Remember to restart Apache!
Thanks goes to Witold Iwaniec
Now my hair will have a chance to grow back from all the pulling out.